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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

THe DAting World

Listen to me! Listen to me! Why is dating so hard? Why can't I find the one? DO you ever ask yourself these questions? DO YOU? Be Honest. No one will know. Let me help where i can.
Believe it or not i have failed at dating once or twice or three times...okay it happens enough to keep me continually guessing and completely confused about girls! Which is a lot!
Let me give you 5 things that i have done that are not wise to do with that girl you asked out and want to take out again...here we Go!
1-Just be yourself! Numero uno DO NOT TRY TO HARD! What i mean by that is don't try to the point where you are not yourself! You want her to like you for you after all and not the fake you....This really is huge.!
2-DO NOT read into texts too much! People are different...some people text a lot and some don't; some girls text flirty and some don't; some girls text you after a date and some don't. (although if they do text you after the date that is a good sign).  The point is that you cannot convey emotion sarcasm or anything like that over text so just don't read into texts too much.  My advice is take every text literally as to what it reads.
3-DO NOT overreact especially early in the dating! I know how you feel guys when you kind of start crushing on a girl after a date or two and than for one reason or another you get this idea in your head for whatever reason that something is wrong! What do we want to do? We want to know...My advice is relax remember that you do not want to overreact over something that probably is not even true.  Just learn to let it roll off of your back!
4-Remember that dating does not mean you are getting married! The point of dating is to build relationships and find things that you like in girls.  You WILL find your best friend whom you will want to marry but there is no reason that the others should not be friends.
5-Follow your GUT! If you think that she wants to cuddle or hold your hand and your GUT says go for it than do it! If you feel like your GUT is telling you to hold off than hold off! We are humans we need to bridal our feelings. It has been my discovery that 88.97% percent of the time your GUT is right! IF your GUT is wrong you can laugh about it later! hahaha Also keep in mind that when you kiss, hold hands, or cuddle when the time is right it will be 93 times more meaningful and enjoyable! 
Well spoken from a true girl amateur i hope it helps men! And to all those girls i have failed with at my own advice i sincerely apologize and want you to know that i am constantly living and learning!!!
Jordan Mulford ...wow this one is actually kind of serious!

3 comments:

  1. Jordan,
    Wise counsel ... in fact I think I will share it in my Proclamation Class tomorrow, if that's OK with you!
    Life is wonderful,
    Dad

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  2. Hi Jordan,
    My name is Leah and I was in the 197th ward this summer for only about a month. I'm good friends with Todd Mathews and have seen you over at 245 a few times, but I've never officially met you. So hopefully this isn't creepy. But I saw that alot of my friends still in the ward all joined your group on facebook, and I also have a blog, so I was curious and decided to read yours. And I just want to tell you how much I love it! I read all the previous posts and I haven't laughed so hard in such a long time! You are hilarious! Keep up the great work.

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  3. Jordan, you freaking kill me.

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